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    Jul 23, 2009, 05:52 PM
    Threads merged, and edited, for the whole story.

    Ok so my friend is boy crazy all she dose is point out guys that seem cute to her... and all she cares about is how she looks... plus one min she will me going out with this guy and the second she will me telling me how she thinks another guy is cute... I am beginning to be annoyed with it... help!

    Me and my best friend are drifting apart and she's also been flipping out at me for no reason!. and she barley talks to me... I want to be friends with her but I have a feeling that we are not going to last longg... :confused::(

    Ok well my best friend is hanging out with this girl that is a grade above us... but the girl think she's all that and is kind of mean... and my best friend said she's going to be hanging out with her more... but I'm worried because she's going to turn like the other girl and not hang out with me...
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    Jul 23, 2009, 06:01 PM

    Tell her about it, communicate your feelings to her before things get out of control
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    Jul 23, 2009, 06:18 PM
    Perhaps have a talk with her and just let her know that she's a been a bit over the top. Try and get a sense of what's happening with her and ask he what she's been feeling.

    Why don't you do some other things together to distract her - go to the movies, whatever.

    It may be that she's bored and needs some other distractions!
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    Jul 29, 2009, 07:36 PM

    If you are Best friends you should talk to her about your concerns.

    Communication is the key.
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    Aug 5, 2009, 07:10 AM

    You can't control what other people do. You can't only control your own actions.

    Let her live her life and you live yours.

    If you two were meant to be friends, you will find time with each other. But these things cannot be forced.
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    Aug 5, 2009, 09:06 AM
    It is time for you to make some new friends. Sometimes people change and there is nothing you can do about it. Sounds like she is growing up and going through the changes and values different things as you.
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    Aug 5, 2009, 09:07 AM

    You need more friends, than just her. You shouldn't have to work that hard to be friends with any body.
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    Aug 5, 2009, 03:54 PM

    Time to find a NEW best friend , and let her deal with her own dramas.
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    Aug 5, 2009, 04:00 PM

    Life is too short and too complicated by yourself to have a "best friend" make things harder on you.

    Blech.
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    Aug 5, 2009, 07:04 PM

    OP,

    Then she is not your friend, you don't have to tolerant her crazy behavior! You can CHOOSE your friend.
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    Aug 5, 2009, 07:20 PM
    I mean,really. Who honestly has any best friends anymore,let alone ones that are too caught up with dumb guys and what they think of them. And if that's what she wants, let her have it. Go find a new friend
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