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    Jul 20, 2009, 06:32 AM
    Cant stop the pain
    OK I was 16 when my mom and dad got a divorce, and just starting dating the love of my life. I really need someone there and she was. I spent 2 and a half years with her and now she doesn't want anything to do with me. She was the only thing that kept me going and nows she's gone, and the pain it won't stop. I'm trying to do things to keep my mind off the pain of losing them all, but I can't I love them all too much.
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    Jul 20, 2009, 06:37 AM

    Sometimes letting go is the best thing that can happen. I am sorry for your loss of her. We never want these things to happen to us but sometimes it is inevitable. Life is to short to have our bad times and let our pain control our life. If she wants to do her own thing then you should do yours. I know it may take you a few days to get over it, but try getting back to your feet fast. Try hanging with your friends. Friends are always there for you and can help you through anything. I wish you the best!
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    Jul 20, 2009, 06:39 AM

    Breakups are always difficult. You just got to appreciate the good times that you had. Try to forget the bad things and move forward with your life.

    Go out and meet new people.
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    Jul 20, 2009, 11:41 PM
    Hey man, my parents also divorced, I also lost the girl that was always there for me. I know EXACTLY how you feel. Things will get better, they aren't for me, because karma is getting me, but I bet you are a really cool guy so things will get better for you. Keep your head help up high, hang with your friends. It sucks, I know you want someone there for you when everything is going wrong, someone to talk to, someone to cuddle with etc. Sometimes life just sucks. Hope you feel better bud, just know that I'm pretty much in the same boat as you, so if you need someone to talk to, I'm here also.

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