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    Jul 14, 2009, 12:57 PM
    What am I suppose to do?
    My mom told me that my dad is cheating on her and he is trying to have a child with other woman and my friends and classmates turn their back on me and bully me at school and I talked to some teachers about it but they don't even care at all what am I suppose to do?
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    Jul 14, 2009, 07:20 PM

    Perhaps talking to a guidance counselor or even another family member?
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    Jul 14, 2009, 08:54 PM

    OK first off, If your dad is cheating on your mom, that's her problem. She's a grown women, all you can do is as her why she's still with the cheater. So, don't worry about it, what happens happens. Let her deal with it. Sounds harsh but looks like you have your own problems at school. What you can do about that is, just be strong. Don't let what they say get to you. What happened that they decided to do this? Was this on your behalf?
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    Jul 15, 2009, 06:09 AM

    You should talk to a guidance counsellor or therapist maybe and maybe another family member. See if that helps.
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    Jul 15, 2009, 06:16 AM

    You can always talk on here. This is a lot for a child to handle.

    Your mother shouldn't have told you about your father, she was probably looking for your support and for you to disconnect with your father because of his actions. This isn't your burden to bare, unfortunately you already have the information and watching your parents separate is a trying experience.

    Why have you had a falling out with all of your friends? We all have difficult times through school, dealing with bullies and drama that won't (or shouldn't) exist in your adulthood. Talk to the teachers about any support groups that you school may offer (at my school they had a children of divorced parents support group) because it will help you to talk about your feelings, it is usually run by a counselor and it may also help you make new friends, if it is offered by your school. It's not too bad to miss a class or two here and there either, ;). If not, ask your mother and talk to her about your feelings, she maybe able to find a support group in the community if one isn't offered at your school.
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