Well, by what you said that hey says, I'd assume you are very open with him about your feelings?
By what I know of human beings, most of them aren't willing to talk about these things in front of other people, especially to the person concerned.
I would recommend going out and doing more group activities. Instead of going to a romance movie alone, go to an action movie with friends. Instead of going out to a romantic restaurant, go out for burgers.
Do things that would not lead to sex, get your mind away from sex when you're with him, and it will stay away (well, not permantly, but easier) when you aren't with him.
I hope that you come to terms with your problems, and if you take my advice, it helps. It helped me.
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