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playghirl · Oct 16, 2006, 05:13 AM

Hi I really hope someone can help me!
The thing is I had a lump on my cervics and had laser treatment but had to have an abortion before I could get the laser but now I am 3 year on and not been able to get pregnant is it posible that cause I had them I have destroyed my chances it reall depresses me because I keep thinking I might be I have all the signs like sore breasts I keep going really hot I'm 26 and already have a daughter... but has anyone else had this prob?

J_9 · Oct 16, 2006, 05:52 AM

I am sorry I don't quite think I understand what you are trying to say. Has it been 3 years since your treatment?

You have sore breasts, you get hot... when was your last period?

Have you been to the doctor? You should probably go see your doctor and ask him these questions. He is the best one to give you the best answers.

playghirl · Oct 16, 2006, 05:59 AM

Yes its been 3 years since ma treatment and I have been trying to have another child but I was just wondering if anyone else has ever had the same problem with trying to conceive after an abortion and treatment!
I have spoke to the doctor and all they say is just keep trying lmao its easier to say but when you are the one that's got the problem its hard.. I have tried everything but still nothing my periods are always mucked up to 28 days to a 30 so never know but this month I feel different I don't know how its stupid but ma stomach is bloated get hot flushes all the time plus my breasts are really sore but I put it all down to my periods due on the 20th but as I said I was just really looking for some advice and to see if anyone else has these problems!

J_9 · Oct 16, 2006, 06:10 AM

You may hear from some that have had these problems, you may not. I am giving advice from a medical standpoint.

It may be possible that you are pregnant. But I will give you a few pointers on when you are most fertile.

About 11 - 13 days after the first day of your period you will be most fertile. Do not have sex every day, this lowers the sperm count. Every other day is better.

If you doc says not to worry, then try not to worry. Worry and stress are 2 of the biggest reasons women do not get pregnant. Stress and worry send your homones out of balance.

So, try and go with the flow, it will happen when you least expect it.

playghirl · Oct 16, 2006, 11:32 AM

Thanks very much I really do hope if not this time then maybe soon xx

playghirl · Oct 17, 2006, 04:34 AM

Well really don't think I am! I keep getting cramp but nothing there the only thing that's troublin me is I can't even straighten me hair without sweatin well thanks for the advice xxx