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    funkygirl613 Posts: 13, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 6, 2009, 10:56 AM
    It hurts,but I don't want to lose a good friend
    So,I haven't been on in a long time! I'm now 14 :) anyway,I recently broke up with a guy.It was heart breaking,but I wanted to be single for the summer,and just have fun.So,a day or two afterwards,he said to my BEST FRIEND,that he's supposidly "falling for her"!! My best friend said she liked him too,but she would never go out with him,since that's like,a rule in a friendship... couple days later,I find out that they were making out in her woods,and at his house! I cried and locked myslef in my room for hours.I was so hurt,I didn't know what to do.They're now dating,which she said she wouldn't do,and their attached at the hip.I can hardly get time to hangout with her without them being together! I don't want to seem them all over each other... its too hard,but I want her to be happy.She asked a million times if it was all right,and me being the most caring person ever,I said I wouldn't mind.I really just want her to be happy,that's all.But I didn't think it'd be with my ex... :( I even told him,that its going to hurt me,but I want them to just be happy together.. and all he did was laugh... I guess I just need some advice,and I just needed to tell somebody about it all.Thanks for everyone who read <3
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    Jul 6, 2009, 01:07 PM

    You told her it was okay, so she assumed it was okay. You can't get mad at her for not being able to read your mind. You need to share with your friend how you really feel. It's the only way to resolve this issue.

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