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    xkevin1985x Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 27, 2009, 09:02 AM
    High School Relationship/Friendship
    I need help in there is this girl who I really love I mean she actually understands me and will listen to me now its been like almost 2 years since we've been friends but now though she has a hard time talking to me because she told me she won't open up to me as much anymore I mean I really like her and I want to become her best friend and support her like a best friend should but I don't know how though because she won't talk to me and also maintain a really good friendship with her the girl I like is very sensitive, very emotional, and is like a very closed person who doesn't like to talk about her life unless she can really trust you, she also really like guys who can make her laugh which is hard for me because I am usually a talk person and I don't know how to make a girl laugh and smile so I need help and you can easily hurt her but there is this other guy who the girl I like really trust and opens up for him but why won't she open up to me I just don't understand and also the funny thing is we've been in so many arguments that I've literally lost count but we've made up every time it's almost like a cycle -we become really good friends and talk a lot, then we have an argument and we then don't talk for awhile, and finally we make up and become good friends again- that cycle has repeated multiple times anyway help me if you can I just need to have a better understanding of what is going on right now and what I could possible do.
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    Jun 27, 2009, 09:21 AM

    Your trying to hard to make something from nothing. It takes two, not just you.
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    Jun 27, 2009, 06:06 PM

    I personally think you have to simply let her know how you feel about her if you like her more than a friend if she is not taken by anybody. If she is than don't. Than go for there.
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    Jun 27, 2009, 06:07 PM

    If it's a cycle... Change it up. If you have legit feelings towards her then take her to a movie or lunch or something and just give her hints. Don't spill your guts and say you love her because she will be consumed by a tsunami of feelings that is overwhelming. So, take it slow and I'm sure you can make it a better relationship. Give her time to open up. She eventually will. Good luck

    -Will
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