[Hai89]

Well i moved to a small town about 5 months ago and i met this kid adam and he became my bestfriend and i kinda started to fall for him but i knew it would be awkward so i never told him and those feelings just kind of went away... but then i met this other guy and he asked me out after a couple weeks and i said yes and adam just kept giving me crap because its my boyfriends old best friend and he was just acting like a big brother... but after a while i started getting feelings back for adam and i told brandon because we promised we would always be honest and he asked if i liked anyone else and i just told him adam.... but now he wont let me go with adam because adam has taken girls from brandon before, but he is my bestest friend.... he says he trusts me now but i can tell he doesnt because when ever i bring up adams name he gets parranoid... and he always asks me where my other boyfriend is... i dont know what to do.... HELP! :(

[JBeaucaire]

1) No matter what anyone else says/does... you be a person of character.

You will be accused of many things in your life, some will actually be true, wholly or partly. Rather than worry about what people might or might not say, just live a noble life.

So, don't do anything for your boyfriend to truly be mad about, then you can live with the unreasonable accusations.

If his accusations REALLY tick you off, perhaps they're not entirely unreasonable and you should consider if he's more right than wrong.

2) Enjoy the melodrama.

Hey, this is the stuff soap operas are made of. If you can't control the weird ways people react to life, you might well enjoy the show.

When people accusing you of wrong-doing see how it amuses you more than anything, and it never makes you mad, it takes the fun of it away and perhaps they'll grow up.

Until then, buy some popcorn and enjoy.