Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    TNB's Avatar
    TNB Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Jun 24, 2009, 12:46 AM
    Spice up marriage
    What can I do or say to spice up a six year marriage?
    zippit's Avatar
    zippit Posts: 693, Reputation: 117
    -
    		  
    #2

    Jun 24, 2009, 01:47 AM

    Are you male or female?
    Fr_Chuck's Avatar
    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,301, Reputation: 7692
    Expert
    		  
    #3

    Jun 24, 2009, 03:53 AM

    Spice up in what ways ?

    Vacation, better sex life, what are your ages. Do you have children
    gabriela_dc's Avatar
    gabriela_dc Posts: 17, Reputation: 6
    New Member
    		  
    #4

    Jun 24, 2009, 05:07 AM

    Im pretty sure you mean sexuality because you ask DO or SAY right.HMMM I have no clue because you've probably done a lot in those six years more than I KNOW.gdluck
    ZoeMarie's Avatar
    ZoeMarie Posts: 2,049, Reputation: 468
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #5

    Jun 24, 2009, 05:57 AM

    If you don't already, date nights! Just the two of you. No distractions.
    TNB's Avatar
    TNB Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #6

    Jun 24, 2009, 07:05 AM
    I am a female my husband and I are 35&32 we have been married for six years and together 14 total. We have 2&4 year old girl and boy. Just wanted some ideas on little things we can do or say without having sex because we are great in that area when we have a chance to slip away from the kids. Maybe that's why we have been together since college because although our managing family and career we fine time to please each other in that area. I know it's more of the small things that would help us have continuous sparks, however we all know that every relationship has it's ups and downs.
    ZoeMarie's Avatar
    ZoeMarie Posts: 2,049, Reputation: 468
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #7

    Jun 24, 2009, 07:35 AM

    Get one of those coupon books, you know, good for a free massage and things like that.
    TNB's Avatar
    TNB Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #8

    Jun 24, 2009, 07:41 AM

    Thanks! I will look around that's sounds like a fun thing we can do together.
    I wish's Avatar
    I wish Posts: 5,296, Reputation: 2030
    Family & People Expert
    		  
    #9

    Jun 24, 2009, 07:49 AM

    Go on a vacation just the two of you.
    TNB's Avatar
    TNB Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #10

    Jun 24, 2009, 08:01 AM

    I wish we had the extra cash for that but that's first on our list when we do because we are well over due.Thanks!!
    doodie's Avatar
    doodie Posts: 19, Reputation: 7
    New Member
    		  
    #11

    Jun 24, 2009, 08:02 AM

    Go for a nice walk on the beach, take each other out for a nice dinner either at an expensive restaurant once in a blue moon or enjoiy something completely random at an unknown small parlour. The key to spontaneously spicing up your marriage is not to plan anything. The less planning the better it is because anything that you do will be more then you expected, the worst that could happen is you can stay home and not do anything.
    Go for a walk and then get some delicious icecream or something :)
    Gdluck
    TNB's Avatar
    TNB Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #12

    Jun 24, 2009, 05:17 PM

    Thanks Everyone!!
    zippit's Avatar
    zippit Posts: 693, Reputation: 117
    -
    		  
    #13

    Jul 8, 2009, 04:53 PM

    Nothing beats getting someone to watch the kids and enjoying a quiet evening together
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Want to spice things up [ 14 Answers ]

Been married 12years want to spice it up in bed read the post about sex toys that sounds fun any othe suggestions.

Need some spice [ 3 Answers ]

My boyfren is always telling me to think of things I want to do to him but apart from going down an kissing him on his nipples an dirty talk I can't seen to come up wit anyting new... he's seems to always br thinking of new things that drive me wild but I'm sure I'm doing that for him... any...

How do I spice up my 12 year marriage? [ 7 Answers ]

My husband and I have been married for 12 yrs, have raised 3 children ages 25, 21, and 9. We have had our share of problems. We almost divorced once after separating several times. I have cancer and recently lost my hair from chemotherapy. I have had a total mastectomy. I am 40 and not as cute...

Suggestions to spice it up [ 34 Answers ]

First off, I'm 26 and my hubby is 34. We've been together for 5 years and have 2 babies together. The problem is, he is very disinterested in sex. We have sex on average about once a month or once every two months! He works long hours out in the heat and I'm sure that zaps his sex drive during...

View more questions Search