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    Jun 21, 2009, 01:49 AM
    Strange relationship
    I would like to advice me what to do with my boy friend.I know him for 8 years he come to my house any time he likes day or night never got to know his family or where he lives. And he told me when he go to visit his mum he don't want me to call him . He told me he want to marry me but every year he said next year,, we never had :confused:sex our relation just like friends and for the lat year he came home he don't even spend time with me or talk to me , he start to hurt me physically and telling me that he hate's me last night he came to my house at 3 am we had big fight and he left... tell me what he want from me I'am sure he well be back... I don't know if he is married or not he got other mobile in his car and one mobile on silent all the time .how do I run away from that man and why he is with me?? /
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    Jun 21, 2009, 07:41 AM

    Does he make you feel bad about yourself? Does it make you sad? Sounds like you need a real boyfriend. 8 years, no sex? He is not interested. Move on..
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    Jun 21, 2009, 07:46 AM

    Get rid of him.

    He doesn't seem like a keeper!! Seriously The whole things stinks and it seems as if you'd be far far better of with him not in your life.
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    Jun 21, 2009, 10:04 AM
    know him for 8 years he come to my house any time he likes day or night never got to know his family or where he lives.
    That's a long time to be dumb
    he told me he want to marry me but every year he said next year,,
    Why believe it when it turns out to be a lie every year? Why allow the lie to be enough?
    we never had :confused:sex our relation just like friends and for the last year he came home he don't even spend time with me or talk to me
    How old are you and where has he been. Your facts are very vague.
    he start to hurt me physically and telling me that he hate's me
    That's the time to get rid of this liar, abuse is unacceptable.
    How do I run away from that man
    You don't run its your house, but you lock the doors and call the police if he continues to bother you.
    why he is with me?? /
    BECAUSE YOU ALLOW HIM, AND HIS BAD BEHAVIOR IN YOUR LIFE!!!
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    Jun 21, 2009, 10:11 AM

    You just start not seeing him, if he comes over don't let him in, if he has keys change the locks, if he calls don't answer

    The minute he hurt your phsycially you should have called the police, if he hurt your phsycally last night, call the police today.
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