[xxboo]

My boyfriend of 2 years have been on and off. We get into an argument and then it's suddenly over. Before I had issues with trusting my feelings and I wasn't exactly ready to be in a relationship but I really liked this guy. It used to be me putting up walls and now I've trusted him and it's him putting up the walls. He's been breaking up with me over arguments and saying that I haven't changed and he compares me to other people. I see that I AM changing for him. And all I ask of him is to not ignore me when I'm mad because that's when I need him most. I know that that's not possible but he still breaks up with me. And instantly after he breaks up with me he says that he's sorry and he can't lose me.

What should I do?

I think he breaks up with me because having a girlfriend is hard work and you have to do a lot of compromises. I've changed a lot of things ever since I gone out with him, but I don't know if he wants to.

And he says I never do what he wants me to do but that's funny because I've been doing a lot of things he's asked me to do that I don't want. And if I do ask him what he wants to do, he always says "I don't know" and that gets me pissed cause later on he'll say I don't do things he likes.

I need advice.

[ChihuahuaMomma]

First off, don't EVER change for someone else. I don't care who it is. BE YOU.

Now that that's said, he's playing games with your relationship. He's found the thing that will get the biggest reaction from you. And it automatically makes HIM right. NO, don't take it. Next time he "breaks up with you" tell him "okay, you've made your bed now lie in it." and walk off.

He's obviously too immature to be in a relarionship, and you seem like you want

[raychi]

REMEMBER. you are the important one. You have to do what's right for you!