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    HawaiiBabe411 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 12, 2009, 08:10 PM
    I'm Scared To Death To Call
    So I have a huge problem. I am beyond scared to call this guy that I like. :confused: and I hate it. I always ruin things because I never call or talk to them. Cuss once I like them and they like me I'm scared to talk to them cuss I think the guy will get annoyed with me.. how can I get over this shyness/scaredness!
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    Jun 12, 2009, 08:11 PM

    Time is the only thing that will bring boldness hon. You can try to FORCE yourself into it, but that won't make you happy.

    This could be your subconcious minds way of telling you that your not ready for a relationship


    Trust me, when that right special guy turns up, you Won't be shy. :) and even if you are, he will find it endearing and HE will pursue YOU instead :)
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    Jun 12, 2009, 08:13 PM

    Get some friends to come over to help encourage you. It's nice to have some support around when you're initially trying to overcome this type of fear. Once you start gaining more courrage, you will be able to do it on your own.
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    Jun 12, 2009, 08:15 PM

    How old are you?
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    Jun 12, 2009, 08:39 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by liz28 View Post
    How old are you?
    I was wondering the same thing Liz.

    Why do you feel the pressure to talk to him?

    Be yourself. Some guys like girls that are agressive; some don't.
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    Jun 13, 2009, 01:13 AM
    Talk to him about him. Be interested in him. Most guys like to talk about themselves.

    It will take the pressure off you.
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    Jun 13, 2009, 08:09 AM

    Come on. You are a Hawiian Babe. Man would I love to be in Hawaii. Anyway about this, this is a fear your brain is projecting to try and protect you for some reason. Have you been hurt? Do you not fully trust him? Are you just afraid of rejection? Find the answer and solve that before you can move forward.

    He must have some interest or at least not be a bad guy because he gave you his number.
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    Jun 14, 2009, 11:06 AM

    how can I get over this shyness/scaredness!
    By facing your fear and talking to him, so give him a call.
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    Jun 14, 2009, 11:21 AM
    I was to but you need to start hanging out with him get to know him because I was to and we started hanging out and then we went out so you need to go talk to him ask him dose he have a girlfriend and ask dose he want one and if yes ask if he want you to be his girl friend if not don't get sad you can always find some one better. Hope u get him
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    Jun 14, 2009, 07:17 PM

    Give him a call and talk about his day
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    Jun 15, 2009, 05:46 AM

    I know I can be intimidating, but please just call me... it is well worth it! :cool:

    In all seriousness, it is a fear that must be overcome with experience (thus, quit being a baby and go for it)!! Good luck.
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