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    I-Need-Help Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 8, 2009, 11:05 AM
    Bleeding After Sex
    Ok basically me and my boyfirend had sex for the first time about 3 weeks ago and it was unbaleivable pain. It was so bad I was physically pushing myself off him every time he pushed in. And there was a lot of blood. I have read about this to try and make sre that I was ready and they said that you should only be spotting and not a lot of blood andi had loads :eek: Yesterday we had sex again and the pain was just as bad again I found mysel crying during intrcourse and pushing myself off him. :( But worstly I bled again and again thee was quiet a lot :( I don't know what to do. Is this by ny chace normal for some women because some are different. I need help. My boyfriend told me thst he will suppot me no matter what and he has even offered to come with me to a walk incenter... but I just want to know what is going on with my body and to be able to do things with my boyfriend beause thi is not nie exerienc for him either :confused: :( I-Need-Help
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    Jun 8, 2009, 11:27 AM

    When I had intercourse for the first time it was absolutely excruciating. And there was a lot of bleeding when my hymen broke. This happened for about four times after. When I went to my doctor he told me this was quite normal and advised that I use lubricant to make intercourse more smooth and less painful. Also from experience try more foreplay and playing before intercourse to get you more aroused it helps you to be more dilated when he enters you. If the pain and bleeding doesn't slow after a few more tries there's no harm checking with your doctor.

    Hope all goes well
    Griffers x
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    Jun 8, 2009, 11:38 AM

    The bleeding is normal...

    You crying and pushing him off you and him still continuing.. NOT OK!
    Was he forcing himself on you or were you telling him it was OK?
    Either way if he knew it was hurting you that much he should not have continued!!
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    Jun 8, 2009, 11:40 AM

    ANY time you are bleeding during intercourse (when you are not menstruating) you should probably see a doctor.

    How old are you?
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    Jun 8, 2009, 12:16 PM

    Not normal.
    See your GYN Immediately! They need to see what is wrong!
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    Jun 8, 2009, 02:55 PM

    I bleed once but it was due to the guy penis size.

    Also, is he doing it rough?
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    Jun 8, 2009, 11:54 PM
    It may be that you were not lubricated enough, which is highly likely if it was the first time, and also that your hymen is a bit tough. Any water based lubricant will make it much easier.

    Bleeding is fairly normal for first time sex, but if you're worried go to a doctor. There is no point in getting worried, it will only make you anxious when you have sex next time.
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