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Hi there,

Interesting one this - I have been with my partner for 7 years and we were engaged for three of these. In all that time I have only ever stayed at his house on a Saturday night. We have bee on holidays everywhere and I love him loads.
The only problem is, this year his friend got really ill and I was questioning at the time where our relationship was going - he decided he needed space which I gave him in order to get his head together. Whilst he was having space he was sleeping with somebody else which I found out. We therefore broke up and he is now with her. She believes he is her dream guy and that they are together forever - he keeps denying they are together and is considering moving to greece. He does keep in touch with me and has said he wishes I could be with him in Greece. He still hugs me when around but his girl texts me every now and again. Do you think he will come back to me or do you think he just does not want to hurt me about this other girl, therefore not telling the truth about them being together even though they have been out together quite a few times and according to her have slept together.
Do you think she is lying, he is lying or they are both lying. They have only been together 3 months.

[Holly23]

Ok this is going to sting.
He was with her before ye broke up.
If you take him back you can never trust him.
Hes saying not with her because
A)He doesn't want any drama
Or
B)He wants to try and keep a window open with you.

DO NOT LET THIS HAPPEN.

Him!!

You deserve so much better than him.Fact!

[Holly23]

Excuse me that him!!
Was meant to be F**K him!!

[redhed35]

Hey,this man is cheating on his new girlfriend,and you're the other women.
He has it all really,new girlfriend,old girlfriend,new life maybe in greece.. if you got back with him,could you trust him?
He had a little time and he had a little fun..
Think you deserve more then this jack ,go out there and get a decent man who won't use you as a backup plan..

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Thanks guys. Do you think it was my fault though (maybe a stupid question)
When his friend was ill, he totally stopped seeing me and cut me from his life, meaning when I did see him I was a tad peed off because 7 years and then to be cut out is harsh.
I was asking hima lot where we were going, do you think I applied too much pressure on him to find out where our relationship was going.
Do you think staying once a week for 7 yrs is taking the piss and I was completely justified in asking where we were going?