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    Jun 3, 2009, 01:32 AM
    Me and mother no longer talk since her money was stolen
    It takes a lot out of me to share this with people over thei internet but who will judge me here. I was very close to my mom would do anything for her and lately she has been dringking very heavily and I have tried to support her but recently decided to not support her she is becoming a very confused person and not the mother I once respected. Life takes us threw changes but I never thought the relationship with me and mother would ever dwindle but it has. I guess I am sort of reaching out for support but have the support of the man upstairs I hope that your relationship with your parents never change because I am telling you god is helping me get threw this one any words of encouragement would be grateful

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    Jun 3, 2009, 01:42 AM

    Hi, bedford12!

    How old is your mother, please?

    Thanks!
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    Jun 3, 2009, 01:59 AM
    My mother is 63
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    Jun 3, 2009, 02:00 AM

    Is your father still around and do you have an brothers or sisters?
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    Jun 3, 2009, 02:04 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Clough View Post
    Is your father still around and do you have an brothers or sisters?
    My parents are divorced and my brother and sister are around my sister lives far and my brother live in the same borough as my moms
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    Jun 3, 2009, 02:06 AM

    You do need some support system for yourself here. Do you and your brother get along and is he a person that you can use for support?

    Also, are you a church-going person?

    Thanks!
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    Jun 3, 2009, 08:09 AM

    Don't go to church regularly and I don't really have much communication with my brother and sister prefer to be alone from them don't have much a support system that is why I joined this website
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    Jun 3, 2009, 02:11 PM

    You will get much support from people here!

    You mention that you don't go to church regularly. But, is there a pastor or priest with whom you would feel comfortable discussing the situation?

    Thanks!
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    Jun 3, 2009, 03:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bedford12 View Post
    It takes a lot out of me to share this with people over thei internet but who will judge me here. I was very close to my mom would do anything for her and lately she has been dringking very heavily and i have tried to support her but recently decided to not support her she is becoming a very confused person and not the mother i once respected. Life takes us threw changes but i never thought the relationship with me and mother would ever dwindle but it has. I guess i am sort of reaching out for support but have the support of the man upstairs i hope that your relationship with your parents never change because i am telling you god is helping me get threw this one any words of encouragement would be grateful

    bedford12
    It is always sad when relationships turn, and things don't go well. I hope you hang in there and that things turn around.

    You said that "me and mother no longer talk since her money was stolen", so I presume that has something to do with the breakdown in the relationship.

    I'm wondering if your mother has always had a problem with drinking, as you said it was just lately. Was there something that happened specifically to her?

    It is hard to know just what to say to make you feel better, but talking it out here might help.
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    Jun 3, 2009, 03:20 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Clough View Post
    You will get much support from people here!

    You mention that you don't go to church regularly. But, is there a pastor or priest with whom you would feel comfortable discussing the situation?

    Thanks!
    Not really don't have a close pastor or preist to confide in
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    Jun 3, 2009, 03:22 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Jake2008 View Post
    It is always sad when relationships turn, and things don't go well. I hope you hang in there and that things turn around.

    You said that "me and mother no longer talk since her money was stolen", so I presume that has something to do with the breakdown in the relationship.

    I'm wondering if your mother has always had a problem with drinking, as you said it was just lately. Was there something that happened specifically to her?

    It is hard to know just what to say to make you feel better, but talking it out here might help.
    Thank you so much my mother did drink a lot growing up by now she drinks more and has been repeating herself constantly all the time don't know how I feel about my moms because I have never seen her in such a confused state
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    Jun 3, 2009, 05:39 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bedford12 View Post
    not really dont have a close pastor or preist to confide in
    Would it be possible for you to find one?
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