[silverdollar]

Hi eveyone please could somebody help me

I split with my ex 6 years ago-we had a house together-stupidly I signed it over to him to get closure on the relationship-i was extremely low at the time.

I'm now with someone else who at first was kind caring the usual but for the past 4 years has been taking large quantities of money from me-has made me in financial hardship and is very cold to me.

Through a mutual friend I found out my ex got married and it was like someone put a knife through my heart.

Please I sound like a weirdo-whats wrong with me

[dudevill]

You should not feel weird about how you feel about your ex getting married. Its obvious that you really cared for him once and some of those feelings are just resurfacing now that you know your ex has moved on.
As for your current situation, if he is siphoning money from you and it is putting you through financial hardships then you need to talk to him and get this settled. Ask yourself if this man is right for you on top of that, you definitely don't need someone in your life who is only going to make you feel more miserable.

[Jayjay2009]

I don't think anything is wrong you, but it's a possibility that you are still in love with your ex. I don't think you should put up with your new boyfriend treating you like that. I can't advise you to leave him right away, however you need to figure out a way to talk to him and work it out, but if he is not interested in working it out with you, you should take it upon yourself to have the strength to leave! Obviously he is not the right person for you because if he was he wouldn't miss treat you. Trust me he is not worth the stress!

[silverdollar]

You know to get replies is so good


Thank you very much you're very kind to help me:)