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a lost soul · May 20, 2009, 08:44 AM

My and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months. When we started going out around the 3rd month of our relationship I introduced her to my best friend.the 3 of us would hang out a lot. But then I found out that she developed a crush on him. I confronted my friend first and told him to not hang with her no more.he said sure to not worry he didn't feel about her like that. And my girlfriend hasn't seen him in 7 months. But last night I decided to hang out the three of us.I called her and told her that I was going to hang out with my friend and I invited her.she got so excited.should I be worried?why is she so excited?

liz28 · May 20, 2009, 09:00 AM

If you already know she has a crush on this guy why even invite her? Why can't you and your friend just hang out without her? Do you really need her to tag along?

oscarlicous · May 20, 2009, 09:03 AM

Why would you invite your girlfriend to go with you? If you know she has a crush on you them why would you invite her? Do you feel like you had to invite her or something?

talaniman · May 20, 2009, 09:07 AM

But then I found out that she developed a crush on him

Unless this is from her and not her friends, I have a hard time believing it.

.she got so excited.should I be worried?why is she so excited?

Ask her, but I suspect she has a good time with you, and your friend. Not something I would worry about.

Romefalls19 · May 20, 2009, 10:33 AM

I see a few flaws with this, which lead to me to believe you are young.

1. Why is it your friends fault that YOUR girlfriend developed feelings for him?
2. Did she tell you she had a crush on him?
3. If you know she has a crush on him, why invite her to go and see him?
4. If you can't trust your girlfriend, you will quickly realize this relationship is a sinking ship