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    scott_1976 Posts: 96, Reputation: 19
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    May 19, 2009, 04:39 PM
    I feel invisible!
    I find myself feeling ignored constantly! At work I have to ask people tons of times before they will help me, most the time they forget and never come. At home my wife will completely ignore me as well as the kids. Sometimes I feel totally invisible! The only time I find people paying attention is when I get angry and then I cause a scene but people notice me then! I am not the most confident person and I don't talk that often so may be that has something to do with it?
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    Just Dahlia Posts: 2,155, Reputation: 445
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    May 20, 2009, 08:18 AM
    I don't think I can help you, but I didn't want you to feel invisible here:)



    People at work could just be real busy.

    At home, maybe you could ask your wife and kids why they are ignoring you? Or maybe they know why you are feeling ignored.:)
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    oscarlicous Posts: 154, Reputation: 10
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    May 20, 2009, 08:26 AM

    You shouldn't feel ignored here! We love you!! You can allways come to us. And about your wife and kids. You can sit them down and have a family talk. Talk about why they are ignoring you and things like that. If they won't listen when you tell them that your going to have a family meeting, you can put it on the fridge or the bathroom mirror. That's the most common place where people go in a house. Just make you that your note is made a day or two before your meeting.
    About the work thing, don't worry about it. Employees are something's a pain in the rear, but if they ignore you, just think... you can do better. If they won't talk to you then there not worth your time. :)

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