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    esiuol Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    May 17, 2009, 02:58 PM
    Age gap
    I'm a 14 year old girl and for years I've been friends with my families friends son for years and he is nearly 11 and I've just gone 14 but considering I'm in year 9 and he's in year 5 it sounds a bit wrong, but he is really mature for his age and he seems much older than he is and we were at a party and I was with him all night and I'm seeing him again next week, would it be okay if we starting going together just to see how things go, I haven't had a relationship for ages and id really like someone to be there for me and no it wouldn't be serious just a bit of fun but people would be horrified if they knew I liked a 10 year old it sounds perverted but why does it matter, were both still young ourselves its nothing serious, you hear stories about women with boys 10 years younger so what's wrong with this, please help should I start going with him NOTHING SERIOUS or would this be a bad idea?
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    May 17, 2009, 03:09 PM

    When he is 18 and you are 21, no problem at all, until then you can be friends
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    May 17, 2009, 03:10 PM

    I haven't had a relationship for ages and id really like someone to be there for me
    You are very young and I get that he is mature and so are you and if you just want to have a friendship,there is nothing wrong with that.
    Just know that you are way ahead of him in maturity ,just by the fact that girls mature faster than boys.
    I hope you are talking about only being friends as he is way to young to be thinking about *dating* in any way shape or form.

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