[jojo114]

It started at a party which ended at 3am. A party where I got insanly drunk but was still somewhat there. There was a guy and he asked me to dance I knew him through a friends friend after we danced we started making out. Thing is after that I gave him my number and we hung out a while, but it seems that he only wants one thing out of me... like yesterday we were making out and I look at him and I'm like what is it that you want and he says I'm a guy and I'm like what's that spose to meen so he tells me lets just say I like everything about you from the inside and out. Its been our third date and all he ever does is make out with me and call me hot(not beautiful), not once did he ask or bring up the subject of a seriouse relashionship which is what I want.I always try to make seriouse converstaion but he just starts to make out on me like if he's so impacient, and he keeps bringing up the subject about touching my boobs and I told him one day when your more seriouse and yesterday he's like when will that day come. I'm not even sure I like him all that much because sometimes when were kissing, some other guy goes through my mind which is wrong I know but still... I don't know what he's after I need some help AND SOME SERIOUSE ADVICE...

[chuff]

You've only gone out three times. Why are you pushing for a serious relationship at this point?

[talaniman]

What does he really want?

He just wants sex, that all he wants.

And what do I want?

A relationship is what you want.

He doesn't.

My advice, get someone who does, and has better manners, and is more of a man, instead of a horn dog. Expecting a relationship from him is not going to happen, as he will do anything you say, if there is a chance of getting sex from you.

[jojo114]

I don't meen seriouse but maybe something a little more then just making out?

[Gemini54]

You can always tell what someone is like by their actions.

This guy wants to make out with you, touch your boobs and has been very clear he wants you for one thing. Why should he think any different? You gave him that idea by making out with him the moment you met.

He's clear about what he wants. You need to be clear about what you want. If you want a relationship this is not the way to start it. Guys will like you a lot better if you respect yourself and are clear that you want to take your time to get to know them.

You've only been with him three times, and probably haven't talked much, so, it's not surprising that you feel confused and don't even know if you like him. Plus it's much too soon to be talking about a serious relationship.

Trust your intuition - you're not comfortable with the situation so listen to your guts. He's not interested in a relationship. Let him go and meet someone that is.