[MtBJOKER27]

So me and my girlfriend have been dating 7 months, the best 7 months of my life so far, but she's about to turn 18 on the 25 and she said she wants to break up with me until I turn 18 on sept 27 4 months later. It bothers me because I've never had a relationship like this and I feel like if I go threw with this nothing will be the same, I mean things change in 4 months, please someone tell me what you think of this??

[BlackVY]

Hmmm... feels like she wants a break so she can go out and experience life as an 18 year old... without having to worry about her boyfriend.

That's not really a good thing, since she wants to be free and go wild, which means things could happen, but you can't hold on to her. You need to let her go do what she wants to do, and if she comes back to you when she said she would, then take it from there.

During that time, take the advice in the forum in all the stickies about how you should do what you want, concentrate on yourself and not think about her and what she is doing when you guys are on a break

[liz28]

Yeah, she is blowing smoke in your ear by telling you the two of you can get back together once you turn 18 in 4 months. The two of you been together all this time so what is the big deal.

I want you to know that these kinds of promises don't fly and most breaks are permanent.

Sorry this happen but relationships are a gamble and sometimes things don't work out as you plan it to.

[I wish]

If space is what she wants, then space is what you need to give her. But I think the "turning 18" is just an excuse. Sounds like her feelings have changed for you.

I'm not sure if you are in no contact, but maybe you want to try to ask her what the real reason is for the break. Communication is the key.