[loversbestgirl]

How often do you just look at somebody, they look back and there is this prologned moment where no words need to be spoken.

Then, the moment is over but for the rest of theday, perhaps week, you just can't get that person, those eyes, that moment out of your mind...

It happens again, this time you catch him staring at your black boots. He comes near to where you are at, again, no words are spoken. He is behind you, you can feel him and you are beginning to think he can feel you too - he must.
Again, and again, and again the eyes connect - in a way I don't think words can possibly describe accurately - it's one of those things in life that's so private, so intense and something you understand but really don't all at the same time.

You see him, he doesn't take his eyes off you and when you pass you say "hello" and he says (in a deep voice) "hello.......and how are you?" You go nuts inside and you clam up and you say "great!" - inside you want to say I think I want to tear your clothes off and the living out of you for days, months, years!

The moment passes and it builds on all the other moments... all the other times he looked at you and you looked back and you said nothing, but it felt as though you said EVERYTHING... within that nothing...

It's been two years, I believe this is called sexual tension now...
I haven't said anything..
I haven't tried to get to know him...
Why? Because well... xxxxx... and I have no idea why he keeps looking so intensly at me, it's as if he wants me, but perhaps he just looks at everybody this way... perhaps this isn't chemistry at all..

Perhaps my co-worker
Well he is driving me absolutely crazy!

Lately he has tried to avoid my eyes because lately I have tried to avoid his
And I miss him
I wonder if he misses me too

Words never spoken... besides the "hellos"


I wonder, am I crazy... eye ing... mmmmm

Seriously this eye connection has been going on for nearly two years. Sometimes he raises his head to the side and stares deeply into my eyes and gives me a little smile... it's killing me. I feel like I am in love with him. I know that is ridiculous..

What is this?
Is he interested?
What do I do next?:p

[tickle]

He sounds like a minipulative creep, a player, teasing you into doing something that he will deride later on, maybe even talk about behind your back. If it were me he would get 'just what is your PROBLEM!'..

If he were interested in you he would have made a move a long time ago, not two years down the line.

If I were you I would stay out of space. This is not someone you want to have anything to do with. Quite frankly he is so like a couple of men I met years ago that I had absolutely nothing to do with.

Kindest regards

Ms tickle

[Fr_Chuck]

Normally a lot of this is in our own minds we want them to be interested and play a fantisy in our minds. So if they are looking at the coffee pot in our direction it is us they are looking at.

But then for the cases when it does happen, life goes on, until one person is brave enough to say something

[makapuu]

I think you need to break the ice, or you'll drive yourself crazy. You don't have to ask him out to lunch, just make conversation and see where it goes.