[Villafan]

To be honest I ent that shy, but I am quiet. I tend not 2 speak when I ent got nothing 2 say. Well I like this girl at schl, she used 2 date my friend, but they stopped now. She and him still speaks, and I asked her on msn if she still liked him like that. However, me and her neva speak at schl, we have a common room and I always see her in there, but she is always with her friends, and is pretty loud, I don't know when I should talk to her, she is leaving in a week, and I am gutted. Would it be strange for me to just suddenly start talking to her, its hard to make someone like you if you don't speak rite? I asked her out a few times, and it kept coming back with her saying it wudnt be rite on my friend, she neva said she daint like me. Other day though, I asked her mate if she did, because it is getting to me, she kept looking at me as well. I said I wish she would tell me she doesn't like me, so I can move on, but she hasn't, does that mean she likes me? Well I think her friend told her what I said, then I asked her, she said she daint see me that way, which I thought was strange. And suddenly she has stopped looking at me :/ I'm puzzled, should I make an effort to speak in her last week??

[Villafan]

Oh yh, when I asked her if she still saw my mate in that way she said no

[joshdom]

If you like her, it doesn't matter straight away how she feels. Atm you too are too distant. Do something to sweep her off her feet. Go to her house after school before she gets back and have some flowers for her etc. every girl wants to be swept off their feet because it makes them unsure what to do, its exciting. She won't say go away, and if you ask her on a date, she can't resist. If she likes you anyway it's a bonus but if not you can change that!

[Villafan]

That is a good idea, but I mite not do that. I think she would think I'm 2 creepy, I'm sure she still likes my friend. They speak on msn a lot, but he ignored her at schl, so she drifted apart from him, but those feelings just don't go away. I think I am chasing the wind with her, its hard 2 get someone 2 like you if they like someone else :/ especially if its your best friend :/

[Curlyben]

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[joshdom]

No harm in trying. If she likes him she will just tell you, but you never know until you try.

[Villafan]

I already have to be honest. I asked her other day if she still saw him in that way, she said no, just as a friend. I had been speaking previously with one of her friends to, and told her mate I wish she would kind of tell me she doesn't see me that way, but she hasn't. But then I asked the girl, and she said no sorry, clearly as a friend. But I am thinking that her friend told her, and she doesn't want to get involved as she is leaving to go uni, so now she is blanking me.

[shazamataz]

If she said "no sorry" then leave her be.
Go and find yourself another girl who wants to be with you :)

[Villafan]

:) that is a good idea shaza, there are other girls who like me, but I'm fixated on this one girl, and to go out with another for the sake of getting over her is rather crule. But I understand with the leave her be bit, it just wasn't meant to be ayy

[shazamataz]

There are plenty more fish in the sea Villafan.
You will find eventually an even better girl :)

[Villafan]

Really hope so, at least she is leaving so I can get over her now :)

[HrvSavag3r]

Go up to her say casualy to her friends hey and just sit next to her, it's the best thing to do, and if her friends judge you just think your better because you don't judge.