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    giggle_monster Posts: 84, Reputation: 0
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    May 7, 2009, 05:16 AM
    Is it wrong to like a guy so long then stop and then like him again?
    There this guy and he is popular and has a lot of friends that are popular and I really like him. He smells good, has great taste in style of clothing, and has a great abbs. I have liked him in the beginning of the school year and I have asked him out but he said no because he had a girlfriend at the time then he did say he liked me but I don't know if its in the same way I like him. Then I stopped for awile but I am starting to like him again and I don't know what to do?

    I could either ask him out and worry about humilidy or suffer the likeness and forget about him. I've tried to stop looking at him and staring, but I can't. Will you help me because I don't know what to do.

    Yesterday in gym he wanted to be my partner and I told him no because I don't think he really wanted to be my partner and I don't think I can handle being his partner. If he really wants to be my partner he wouldn't of tooken no for an answer so if he asks today I guess I might be his partner.
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    May 7, 2009, 07:35 AM

    Is he single?

    The feelings that your feeling are normal. I went through the same thing throughout middle and high school.
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    May 7, 2009, 07:43 AM

    He will probably not ask again today.

    Boys are just like girls and being rejected does hurt. He probably won't take the intiative to be rejected again and he can't force you to be his partner once you said 'no'. So do not be surprised that he didn't continue to ask.

    You don't know him too well, if you don't know when/if he has a girlfriend and you are setting yourself up for him to say 'no' when you don't know if he is available.

    Find out first, if he is available.

    If he is, ask him out to somewhere.

    If he is not, feel free to admire him from a far. We all had similar crushes on people when we were young.
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    May 7, 2009, 07:53 AM

    Well when he asked me his voice was all in a playing voice. I told him no because it seemed that when he asked it felt like he was joking around.
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    May 7, 2009, 08:04 AM

    Then maybe he was being silly.

    Maybe he was protecting himself to be able to play it off as a joke, in case you said no.

    Who knows, boys are just as insecure as girls.
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    May 7, 2009, 08:12 AM

    Yea so if he wants to be my partner I will let him
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    May 18, 2009, 10:55 AM

    You guys are right he never asked to be my partner again.
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