[ny1016]

Well,this girl and I have both liked each other for 7 months.The thing is neither of us has never said anything . She has started to ignore me and evade me ,but I really like her and don't know what to do.I talked to her the other day but don't really know how she reacted.She did smile and laugh but she made little eye contact and she did turn a little red.I'm pretty sure she still has feelings for me ,but don't know what to do.Should I tell her the next time I see her ,talk to her a couple of times and then tell her or just forget her.Thanks everyone.

[missmykids]

I don't know how old she is but I would guess that she still likes you she is just shy! It's hard when you are shy and you don't know what the other thinks. Just keep talking to her, ask her on a date and see what she says.

[Nestorian]

Walk right up to her, with a sense of purpose, and asker her if she wants to hand or go to see a movie. Then you can get used to one another, and then maybe if the moment comes, kiss her. That'll seal the deal. Then you'll know you both like each other.

Keep it calm relaxed, and chill. Breath and just ask her. If she says no, you at least know and can move on. "Action equals benafit to be gained, over risk to be taken."- From the book talking to yourself. It means that even if she says no, you won't be any worse then you are or if you are it'll be small and you'll get through it, but if you don't take the chance, you may miss out on an amasing expereience. SO why not? Just go for it.

Peace and kindness be with you.

P.S. That book is about cognitive Psychological approach.

[talaniman]

You should have been talking and getting to know her for the last 7 months. Maybe its not to late, but there is only one way to find out for sure. Talk to her.

[ylaira]

If she's shy and you're shy, but both don't know what to do, how about asking one of her closest friends to ask for you?