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    nena14 Posts: 13, Reputation: -1
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    Apr 26, 2009, 02:45 PM
    Am I just a game for him?
    I'm 15 years old I lived in mexico now well I met "the guy of my dreams" he's 18 years old we started to have sex really fast ( 1 month)! And I'm bisexual and when he found out we broke up but I didn't tell him I was bisexual because I wasn't sure;;sometimes I see him and every time we see each other we have sex,but I don't know if I am pregnant I have to wait to find out and I'm really scared he can go to jail because he's 18 and plus my parents will kick me out of the house and he is not even my boyfriend I don't know what to do I don't think that he still have feelings for me but I just can't get over him and it does really hurt I don't know what to do!
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    Apr 26, 2009, 02:50 PM

    You are in a bit of a pickle.

    The first mistake was not starting with a truthful relationship... but you probably already know that. You got to not have sex with him when you break up. NC rule. I know it's hard. But it's a bad idea to hang with him. A lot of things are at stake. And sex seems to be a lot more important than other things in this relationship to him. He's not worth missing if that's what he wants from you.

    Other than that I don't know what to tell you about the pregnancy thing. You just have to wait and find out. I would drop all ties with him as he can screw up your life quick if you let him. Try to think about other things for now, like yourself most of all and true friends you can really talk to and school. You're only 15 and it is so early for you to already be in this much trouble in life. Don't let it take your life away from you.
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    Apr 26, 2009, 03:02 PM

    Okay, you met a guy then had sex with him even though he wasn't your boyfriend and now you think you might be pregnant? Then you want to know if he is playing games with you? Then the icing on the cake is that he 18 and the so called "man of your dreams"? What dream are you in?

    First, if your going have sex use protection and you should have gotten on birth control pills.

    Secondly, if you are pregnant exactly how do you plan on supporting this child? Children are expensive and babies grow up and then they need more. Having a baby won't keep a guy and the guy can always leave while your stuck with the responsibility. Yes, you can take him for child support but that will only ease the fiancial burden, maybe. But a judge can't order a father to be part of the child life.

    Then the guy is of legal age while your not, some on.

    Your living in a fantasy instead of reality and whether if your pregnant I hope this wakes you up. Don't allow yourself to be use for sex because you fancy a guy. Your body is your temple and you have to protect it. Education is the key so please get educated about sex and love. Because this wasn't love it was only sex.
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    Apr 26, 2009, 03:27 PM

    It was not the best decision to have sex with him, you are very young.
    In case you are pregnant, tell your parents, if they kick you out, go to Socical Services in the town you are in or go to a Church and ask them for help. Hopefully you are not pregnant, please be very careful next time.
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    Apr 26, 2009, 03:29 PM

    Here goes the other part of the story. The OP took the sperm from a used condom and inserted it into herself to get pregnant by the man of her dreams. https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregna...om-345864.html
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    Apr 26, 2009, 09:26 PM
    Stop right now. What are you - crazy?

    Stop having sex with people you hardly know and living in a fantasy world about whether you are bi or straight.

    You might be young but that is NO excuse for completely irresponsible behaviour - by that I mean having unprotected sex. How dare you play with a potential life? Don't you think that there are enough stuffed up kids out there already?

    Get a grip on reality and speak to someone that can help you - this is really really stupid and harmful behaviour you're engaging in.

    Do you want to be happy? Do you want to have a good life? Start this very minute by talking to your school counsellor, mother, priest, whoever.

    Make a choice to live well and don't f**k up your life.
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    Apr 28, 2009, 05:34 PM
    Life is really hard
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    Apr 28, 2009, 05:36 PM
    Do you know how to delet my account?
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    Apr 28, 2009, 05:38 PM

    I'd think that would be the least of your worries.
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    Apr 28, 2009, 05:46 PM
    :confused:mmm.. no really
    So can youtell me how ?
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    Apr 28, 2009, 06:20 PM

    You can not deleted you account, you don't ever have to log in again, but you accout is not deleted

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    Apr 28, 2009, 06:21 PM

    Only the moderators can do that and if anything you can go to feedback or forums help but mostly you can get your questions deleted but why do your account deleted?
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    Apr 28, 2009, 06:23 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by nena14 View Post
    do you know how to delet my account?
    Unfortunately your account cannot be deleted. Had you taken the time to read the TOS you would have realized this prior to posting.

    Any communication or material you post or transmit to the Site is and will be treated as non-confidential and non-proprietary. You assume full responsibility for anything you post or transmit, and you grant Ask Me Help Desk and its affiliates the right to edit, copy, publish and distribute any information or content you post or transmit for any purpose. This means you should presume that information and opinions you post on this website are public and permanant .
    Found here... Ask Me Help Desk - FAQ: Terms of Service, FAQ and How To Use This Site
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    Apr 29, 2009, 06:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by liz28 View Post
    Only the moderators can do that and if anything you can go to feedback or forums help but mostly you can get your questions deleted but why do your account deleted?

    Because my sister told my mother abput this site and she read everything and she knows what I did! And she told me to delet this because she can't believe I put in the internet
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    Apr 30, 2009, 07:24 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by nena14 View Post
    Becuase my sister told my mother abput this site and she read everything and she knows what i did! and she told me to delet this becuase she can't believe i put in the internet
    Well that's karma isn't it? Good on your sister, at least she's looking out for you even if you aren't.

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