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    Melanie007 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 19, 2009, 10:28 AM
    Boyfriend wants space
    I have been seeing this guy for a while and things have been amazing. Over the past week he became depressed and basically turned into a jerk. We would make plans and he would never would never show up or call saying he will not show up. This happened four days in a row. He keeps texting me just to say hello but shows no interest in wanting to see me. He also mentioned he needs his space, which is funny to me because we rarely see each other. Does this mean it's over and he just won't directly tell me? Thanks
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    shazamataz Posts: 6,642, Reputation: 1244
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    Apr 19, 2009, 10:51 AM

    I would say so yes, it sounds like he has already moved on from your relationship.
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    Apr 19, 2009, 10:58 AM

    The next time he texts you ,express your concern and tell him you are not interested in being a text friend.

    He wants his space ,you should respect that but tell him to stop sending you mixed messages.

    Sounds like he doesn't know what he wants.

    He doesn't want to be with you now so he is just trying to keep you hanging in case he changes his mind.

    Maybe there is another girl in the picture and he is keeping you holding on as plan B,in case she doesn't work out.

    Bottom line ,he is being disrespectful and that should never be accepted.

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