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    wantanftw Posts: 30, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 11, 2009, 01:59 PM
    I won't see her for 10 days
    I like this girl and I am not going to see her for the whole time. I had a really great day with her before we went on spring break and I'm afraid she will forget about me while were on break. Any opinions :confused:
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    Apr 11, 2009, 02:04 PM

    10 days is not a long time.why not send a text?
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    Apr 11, 2009, 02:05 PM

    She doesn't have a cell fone
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    Apr 11, 2009, 02:08 PM

    You know,the only way your going to know is when you meet up again.
    And when you do,ask her out?
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    wantanftw Posts: 30, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 11, 2009, 02:10 PM

    I had intentions too I have somewhat coldfeet because of the fact I asked a girl out a little too early last time I liked her and I was very close but I don't want to be close I want to get there you know?
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    Apr 11, 2009, 02:17 PM

    You know,the advice here is really good,I had a similar situation recently,and the advice was ,nothing ventured,nothing gained.

    So,ask her out,or try and build a friendship.

    You don't say how old you are.
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    Apr 11, 2009, 02:17 PM
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    Apr 11, 2009, 02:19 PM

    Ach,ask her out. If you don't,the answer is still no.
    What's the worst that can happen?
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    #9

    Apr 12, 2009, 05:05 AM

    I think you need to grow something.
    Yes a mobile is a great idea, so is learning to have patience, truly a virtue.
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    Apr 12, 2009, 08:12 AM

    I get that 10 days might seem like along time when you like someone, but its going to pass in a wiff. As for asking her out; like red head said: nothing ventured, nothing gained.

    Its normal to fear rejection, I think most (if not all) the people who come to AMHD fear rejection on some lvl. I know I do. But sometimes we have to defy the fear and take a chance.

    If you don't, you might never have a chance.

    So when she comes back, ask her to do something with you; go to a café? A movie? Hang-out? Something you think the both of you might enjoy.
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    Apr 12, 2009, 08:17 AM
    These other posters are correct. If you do not take chances, nothing good will come to you. Things won't always work out the way you want, but sometimes they will.

    10 days is really not that long. If she likes you, she will miss you - not forget about you.
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    Apr 13, 2009, 01:52 AM

    If she "forgets" about you in ten days you were never on her mind and you need to move on.
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