[jessie_10]

OK so I have had a huge crush on this kid who is 2 years older then me and well he asked me out and we had been dating for like 3 mounths and then I felt he was taking advantage of me so I broke up with him and so 24 hours later I noticed I really need him so I asked him if he would want to try again and he sayed he would so we dated for about other week... and my friends really don't like his so they pretty much dumped him for me even though I wound have wated and talk to him face to face and then me and his older brother who is like 12 years older then me texed each other about it and he sayed that his brother was really confused and now I want him back for good now... and his brother told me to give him a year or 2 and I really don't want to... I still have major feelings for him... what do I do I want him back! Help

[mudweiser]

You need to stop being so fickle. Make up your mind. Are you going to do what you want or have others do the thinking for you?

If you really like this guy and would actually like to have a relationship with him then I suggest talking to him, alone. Not only that but sincerely apologize for giving him mixed signals. After that it's up to him to decide.

As for the brother, he is just looking out for his brother- if this guy decides to get back with you I'm sure he'll be supportive, maybe not right away but in the later future.

MRS.S

[talaniman]

How was he taking advantage of you, and how old are you both?