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LaylaAllAlone · Mar 31, 2009, 02:24 PM

I have a son with my ex partner, and am very down and upset. The reason for this is because I still love him and want to be with him. The thing is he has a new girlfriend and am very torn up about it. My ex partner will be seeing his son for the first time tomorrow, but really wanna keep him for good and be a proper family. How do i go about getting him back? please help me im very down about it and love him so much but am finding it hard to tell him even though he already knows.:confused:

Justwantfair · Mar 31, 2009, 02:28 PM

If he already knows and he hasn't come back to the relationship, you don't have to worry about telling him.

You have to worry about being strong for your child, as you are a single parent.

You can't make a partner come back to you and although it's admirable position for your child, the fact is that children don't benefit from a toxic relationship just because there are two parents there.

Maybe someone will come by and tell you what you really want to hear, but I don't think it is wise to try and win your partner back.

MiSSsy111222 · Mar 31, 2009, 02:50 PM

There is nothing you can do to get you ex partner back. If there was a way the majority of the people on here would have used it! The only adive I can give is to be strong for yourself and your kid and try to move on.

Many of us still love and care for our ex's, but we are not with them and there is nothing we can do to bring them back. The harder we try to win them back the more we push them away.Your ex has his own mind and it is made up.

liz28 · Mar 31, 2009, 03:09 PM

The best thing for you to do is move on and continue letting him a father to his son.

Your ex done moved on and have a girlfriend so follow his lead by doing the same. You can't get him back so the only thing you can do at this point is heal yourself and work at getting over him.