[ssj4trunks09]

Well I haven't been the best boyfriend.. after 5 months my girlfriend finally said that she's tired of being treated like . I've told her once I once saw her as a friend during our relationship, and I've threatened to broke up with her three times already.

Yesterday she said she loves me and deeply cares about me but she's tired of the way she's being treated. I was her first. She didn't break up with me because she's scared of losing me. I told her if she doesn't want to be with me I will let her go, I'm not going to force her to be with me if her feelings for me are gone. But then she said that she wants me to force her to be with me. Then today she told me she doesn't know what her feelings are towards me. That she's confused.

I asked her is it because she's thinking about breaking up with me and she said yes. But then she said she just wants her space and to give her 2 days to calm down. She wants to think about some things such as is it worth being treated like..

I don't want to loose her because I know what I will lose if I do. What should I do?

I've told her I can change, I told her I will change. She says I don't care about the relationship when I honestly do, I just don't show my feelings. I don't cry or anything. These past few days I showed her I really do care, but she is still scared that I won't change. I told her repeatedly I can change.

She is scared. Should I not call her and just give her the space she wants?

[none12345]

Honestly dude, telling her you will change NEVER works or is enough for a girl. Its up to you on what you do. Try giving her some space for a while. If she really does love you she will want to work things out.

[Alty]

What does she mean by you treating her badly? What do you do? What are you promising to change?