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sa10323 · Mar 26, 2009, 08:17 AM

Well here’s my situation… I’m a little confused about this guy I went out with. I’m not sure if his interested in me or maybe I’m confusing things……

I have known this guy for a very long time and his a very nice guy. We went out on several dates but I just saw him as a friends, I really wasn’t interested in me in any other way. But on one of our outings we kissed and ever since then I started to feel this attraction towards him. But then things changed a little…whenever we would hangout after that he wouldn’t call me at all. However we would always kiss and kinda acted like we were dating, he would hold my hand and hug me. I called him twice but then I never called again and eventually we just stop talking. To be honest I felt a little bad but I let things just be the way they were and we didn't see each others again.

He recently called me and texted saying to call him that he wanted to say hi…So I called him and we talked and he wanted to go out with me. I had plans that weekend with my friends, so I told him that i had plans but we could go the following weekend. So he tells me that whenever I wanted to was fine with him to let him that he wants to see me. So he called me the following weekend and we went out and we had a good time. We acted like before we kissed and hugged…but he hasn’t called me at all….so I’m confused :confused:. Why does he act so nice and like he's all into me and then that’s it…

Let me know you thoughts??? thanks!

Justwantfair · Mar 26, 2009, 08:19 AM

Why not ask him? He is sending you mixed signals, maybe he will let you know what his intentions are.

I wish · Mar 27, 2009, 01:31 PM

He seems just as shy as you are.

We don't know his side of the story, but we know yours. You have all these questions and the person with the answers is him.

So just ask him.

lennore · Mar 27, 2009, 06:05 PM

He might not like talking to the phone, have u even consider that? :/ its normal go on and talk to him I might be correct. And then let us know.. kisses

sa10323 · Mar 30, 2009, 11:04 AM

Thanks for your replies... Well I buIlded up courage and called him and he didn't pick up he called like 30 minutes later... He was very nice we talked normal as friends... he was going out with his friend to this bar and he wanted to know if I wanted to join them but I couldn't because I had to work the next day super early... so we just ended as "lets see if we hangout next weekend" which is fine.
I got the vibe he just wants to be friends... he is a very nice guy and we can definitely be friends...