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Unknown00124 · Mar 25, 2009, 09:46 PM

All right, well there's this girl in school that I really like but I need the courage and time to tell her how I feel. I already know she likes me back,but she wants me to tell her how I feel if she wants to go out with me. I am a very nervous person and never have the right time to talk to her. Any help?

talaniman · Mar 25, 2009, 11:10 PM

Just tell her you like her, and would like to share some fun together.

How old are you both??

Unknown00124 · Mar 25, 2009, 11:22 PM

We are both 14, same grade...

NallaNeedsYou · Mar 26, 2009, 04:09 AM

Well what is there to lose? You can go out and be confident in yourself because this girl likes you or you can watch her slip away. It will definantly be embarrising for her as well so don't think you're the only one dreading that moment. Try letting it on in other ways if you can't bring yourself to be upfront about it. (im 14 also and for me, if I want to a message to be given I go to a close friend of the person) :) just show her your keen and drop a hint or something. Try not to get too worked up about it!

jrsg · Mar 27, 2009, 08:29 PM

Words usually work best... Stringing them together into a sentence proves to be a much more effective method. Ha ha :)

All joking aside,
YOU LIKE HER. YOU KNOW SHE LIKES YOU. All you have to do is tell her that you like her, and you would like to go on a date, or whatever. You KNOW the response is going to be a positive one, so go ahead! As for finding time, just pull her aside at lunch, find a place to be alone, and tell her. Or, even just ask her to hang out after school, and tell her then.

I know this is hard for you, probably the first time you've ever done this. But it is well worth the risk. Courage is hard to come by, but be confident, and JUST DO IT! Don't procrastinate, set a date, and ask her out by then. By that date! No exceptions! Just do it.

I think you should just openly ask her out. If you decide to do that, let us know how it goes!

And good luck, whatever you decide to do!

Unknown00124 · Mar 28, 2009, 03:24 PM

I was about to tell her yesterday, but she wash there at school. And now it's my spring break so I have time. I'll find timenafte the break. I'll tell u what happens and if any other advice that would help

jrsg · Mar 28, 2009, 07:08 PM

Originally Posted by Unknown00124

I was about to tell her yesterday, but she wash there at school. And now it's my spring break so I have time. I'll find timenafte the break. I'll tell u what happens and if any other advice that would help

Have a good break, and good luck!

Sphira · Mar 28, 2009, 07:23 PM

Hey I am a 14 year old girl and I recently told a guy how I felt and he hasn't responded I feel very left behind now I know a girls who's into him so don't hold off telling her how you feel if you know or she will feel like I do so go for it and if it doesn't work out (which it will if you get a move on) then it doesn't but you'll never know if you never try

Unknown00124 · Mar 29, 2009, 04:58 AM

I asked her before to go out. She said yea but after a while she said to just be friends. NOW she likes me again, and she wants me to tell my feelings for her. I just need to do the same as I asked her out, but put in sentences that make sense

Sphira · Mar 29, 2009, 05:05 AM

Originally Posted by Unknown00124

I asked her before to go out. She said yea but after a while she said to just be friends. NOW she likes me again, and she wants me to tell my feelings for her. I just need to do the same as I asked her out, but put in sentences that make sence

OK I do write senteces that make sense and if she has started to like you again what happened before I need more information to help you can I know more about what goes on if she acts completely different by herself than with her friends she's just trying to impress them but what groups do you all roll in I mean its kind of hard to figure out are you guys hanging out in a group or in different circles

jrsg · Mar 29, 2009, 07:42 AM

Originally Posted by Unknown00124

I asked her before to go out. She said yea but after a while she said to just be friends.

Okay... well now I see where the nervousness is coming from. But she WANTS you to ask her out, so go ahead. Is that what you mean by this:

Originally Posted by Unknown00124

she wants me to tell my feelings for her.

Has she outright said, "Tell me you like me" or what? I am confused... Aren't girls the most confusing things, Unknown? So confusing, ha ha.

Unknown00124 · Mar 29, 2009, 04:07 PM

Actually she gets her friends to tell me. I guess she's a bit shy as I am

jrsg · Mar 29, 2009, 05:13 PM

Well, that's common.

When you do tell her, be confident! And again, Good luck!

Sphira · Mar 29, 2009, 08:36 PM

Hey girls arnt confusing we just get shy when we know a guy likes us then we tell our friends about it and they blab getting the girl embaressed that is the way it normal happens I know I'm talking from personal experience but I agree just ask the girl you probably have a better situation than many people I know

confusedgirlplz · Apr 1, 2009, 12:22 AM

I'm a 13 year old girl, so I'm saying this from what I know. I would like nothing better then if the guy I like were to walk up after school or between classes and tell me he likes me. If he were to text me, email me, or pass me a note; I would ignore it. Just walk up, hug her, and tell her to her face!

confusedgirlplz · Apr 1, 2009, 12:24 AM

If she likes you, most likely she'll say yes!

Sphira · Apr 1, 2009, 01:34 AM

Originally Posted by confusedgirlplz

If she likes you, most likely she'll say yes!

Right on