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    labelledlove09 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 24, 2009, 05:11 PM
    Crush on a lecturer!
    I am currently a second year university student in the UK. I am 21 years olds. I have a boyfriend of 2 years and I am very happy with him... I have one issue though, I have recently had some dealings with a lecturer at uni. He was supervising an experiment I carried out, and I really fell for him. He is an older guy, I would say around 40-50 and he wears a wedding ring, but he is a really attractive guy for his age.

    I barely know him, and I know I have a boyfriend, and you are probably thinking its all crazy and wrong, but I think about him loads. I enjoyed it being just us two in his office, and I had naughty thoughts, and its JUST WRONG!!

    How can I stop this, I would never cheat on anyone, let alone my boyfriend, and I need to get him out my head, as I keep saying I KNOW its WRONG!
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    Zaithe Posts: 99, Reputation: 4
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    Mar 24, 2009, 10:53 PM

    Hi there lady,
    Well it's a human nature that you usually fall for the thing which usually you like in oppisite gender but never find in your boy/girl friend. Some understand and some go for that crush thinking that its love. Well now what I have do in this situation is get more time to my GF and find more about herself and find something new in that which I likes and overcome this sort of crush. You can try these things and all things which you think with teacher, may be your BF is not allowing to do with him which you think with teacher,so better talk with him about that
    If this help you then good otherwise I can give you some others tricks also.
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    mudweiser Posts: 2,750, Reputation: 707
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    Mar 25, 2009, 02:07 AM
    It's just something new, that's all.

    Try not to follow those feelings though, it'll bite you in the arse, after all he is married!

    MRS.S

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