[rocket1774]

My boyfriend and I broke up a week and a half ago. We were dating for a year and 3 months. We broke up because I didn’t make him feel loved. Two days after we broke up, he said he wanted to go out again but I said we should think about it. He ended up saying he wanted to end it, but I didn’t. I tried everything to get him back. Show him I loved him, talk like we did in the way beginning, tell him I miss him…Everything! He told me if I didn’t stop that he would stop talking to me. So I stopped and later that night I said I was sorry. He has told me over and over that he doesn’t have feeling at all for me anymore! I just can’t believe that because we broke up less than two weeks ago. After loving someone for over a year, you don’t just get over it that fast. Well, we talk sometimes and today he told me that Friday he is hanging out with three girls at one of their houses, Saturday he is going tux shopping with a girl that asked him to prom (it’s the same night as our schools prom…so he isn’t going…all of sudden) and after shopping their coming back to his house for dinner with his family, and Sunday he is going to the beach with four girls and two guys from another school. When he told me, my response was “oh” and he asked what was wrong…I was like “what do you think is wrong? I want to be with you and your going out with all these girls already…it hurts” and he said “sorry.” We haven’t talked since that which was this afternoon.

Do you think he is trying to make me jealous?
Should I text him?
What should I do?
How should act?
Does he still like me?

HELPPP!

[liz28]

Don't worry about his actions and don't spend no more time thinking about it. He is your ex and is free to do whatever he wants and see whoever he wants. It's time for you to move forward with your life and are you having a prom, if so than stop focusing on that and have fun with your girls. Your going have plenty of time for them.

[rocket1774]

I really want to be with him now... so its really hard for me.

[O_Troubles]

Wow what an arse ! He obviously doesn't care so neither should you. If your going to prom I'm going to assume your about 17-18 just a little fyi but guys mature way later then girls so maybe he hasent matured maybe he got scared of commetment it doesn't matter. He doesn't want you so listen to him ignore him if he misses you he will call you, but on and off again relationships don't really work. If he is trying to hurt you that's wrong and you should not be even bothering with a guy who would want to hurt you like that. He could have just kept his mouth shut instead of telling you all his little adventures.

[rocket1774]

He is a really nice guy though. Like the nicest even I'm not even making that up. And I want to be with him sooooo bad!

[liz28]

That's your problem you want to with him soooo bad and believe me he knows it. However he don't want to be with you so what your going do? Sit on the sidelines hoping that he changes his mind while he is out enjoying his life? Or continues begging him to come back to you?

It is time for you to wake up and start living in reality instead of being stuck in a fanstasy. Life doesn't stop because he doesn't want to be with you and furthermore I wouldn't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with me.

[O_Troubles]

If he is so nice why is he being a to you don't defend him you the one who said what he did not us

[rocket1774]

That's why I don't get it... because he is such a nice guy but he is being a complete jerk to me...
So I thought he was trying to make me jealous..