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    Mar 9, 2009, 10:04 AM
    How to stay friends with girl after you break up.
    I was friends with a girl for about 3 years and watched her go through guys cause they all were scum. So I started dating her about a month ago but now realize that we are to good of friends and I don't feel that way about her. How do I break up with her and remain friends. Cause I think she is very nice and deserves someone better. Please help?
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    Mar 9, 2009, 10:09 AM
    Tell her the truth. Tell her what you just wrote. Give it a few days and wait for her to start talking to you again, if she does get angry or upset.

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    Mar 9, 2009, 10:25 AM

    I sugest you do it as soon as possible. Don't take it any further, less time the better. Be gentle and kind and tell the truth.
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    Mar 9, 2009, 10:28 AM

    It has only been "about" a month, so I doubt either on of you have any real feelings towards the other... just tell her the truth. Sometimes it is just better to be friends with someone, as dating tends to complicate matters. I am sure she will understand, and it is best to be honest and up front NOW, rather than later.
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    Mar 9, 2009, 10:32 AM

    Just be honest, it's really the best thing to do in these situations.
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    Mar 9, 2009, 10:39 AM

    You should tell her before this goes any further as everyone above has said. I would just tell her that you value your friendship a lot, and that you just don't want to lose her as a friend, so it's better to keep it on a friendship level because relationships can go south really quick... especially when you are young.
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