[open petal35]

Hi, I'll make it brief. I went to a tattoo parlor 2 do a cover up of my exhubby name on my arm. The artist was professional. I had 2 come back for him to finish and I seem 2 have fell under his spell. Its been 2 weeks and he doesn't return my calls or texts. What's up? He is smooth and has a lot of females flocking around his store. He came 2 my house 1nce. Nothing happened. I am probably moving 2 slow for him. We kissed yesterday for the 1st time. I was floating on cloud 9. He was supposed 2 have come 2 my house after work. He did tell Me he was tired... still he didn't call or text 2 cancel! What is this about? I am attractive and successful. I haven't had sex since Nov. 2008. I am backed up. What can I do 2 hook this 29 year old, gemini artist?

Thank you, I am so frustrated, feeling toyed with and discouraged.

Open petal35

[Clough]

Hi, open petal35!

I'm assuming that you got divorced. Is that correct? If so, how long has it been since you've been divorced? If you weren't divorced, then I apologize for being assuming. But then, how long has it been since you were with your exhubby, please?

Thanks!

[Texasmama]

do me a favor, openpetal35, go back and try to read your letter as if someone else wrote it. my gut reaction is leave this guy alone. you said you're attractive and successful -- you don't need this guy to make you "whole". also, he is smooth and always has girls hanging around him? do you wanna be a groupie? you are young with so many possibilities, don't get stalled in neutral with this guy! good luck!

[Texasmama]

p.s. as far as no sex since November, get yourself some toys and don't announce to dates that little fact about yourself!

[Romefalls19]

I agree, don't go into a relationship just looking for sex. That will damage your image and self-worth.