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    Jsg021 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 8, 2009, 04:51 PM
    AM i a HOE or addicted to sex
    I don't know sometimes I just feel so unloved like no one cares or thinks about me. Sometimes I feel beautiful and other times I feel like crap. Its my senior year and I am always alone. I really don't have any friends and am scared to trust people because I'm afraid to get hurt. I turn to sex most times because I feel loved but then like dirt afterwards. But I am startd to get addicted. I wasn't always like this. I randomly get horny and have to have sex.not with random people though. But I'm afraid it mite turn that way. I have sex with people then I get attached, and I guess I'm a bootycall. PLEASE HELP ME FROM BECOMING A WHORE.:confused:
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    Mar 8, 2009, 05:21 PM

    You have to channel your lonely to something else besides sex. I think that sense you sometimes feel unlove this makes you have sex with a guy in hopes of them loving you so that's why you don't mind having sex with them. I don't know if any of these guys ever wanted anything serious from you but your insecurities block from letting them in because your afraid.

    You really need to battle your own issues from within by seeing a counselor because it would help you a lot. I hope you do by the way do you have anyone you trust to talk too and how is your relationship with your parents especially your father?
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    Mar 8, 2009, 05:41 PM

    You just sound lonely. And going from your other post, you're hurting. Sometimes we do things that we wouldn't normally do when we're feeling down. The good thing is that you realize you're doing something that could be hurtful to yourself. Do you have any good friends? Those are the people that are supposed to be there for you when you're thinking about doing stupid things to talk you out of doing it. My friends have saved me many times!
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    Mar 10, 2009, 09:38 AM

    you need to learn how to control your sexual feelings. Thing about all the negative aspectd of having sex without a committed relationship . You say yourself that you get attched to these people then after you feel like dirt. Remember this feeling next time you get the urge to have random sex.
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    Mar 10, 2009, 09:46 AM

    I would appreciate if you would check out this link to another thread discussion.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-...-324084-4.html

    Please read what cmhagedorn posted on page 4. All of it may not be relevant to you, but I think the feelings are the same.

    Sex and love ARE two different things and just having one, doesn't mean you have the other. But BEFORE anyone else can love you in a way that you understand, you have to first love yourself.

    Being a teenager is a very difficult time that you will get out of. High school will be over and you will find out who you really are and who you want to be. Start by finding out what qualities that you have that make you special and likeable. There are many reasons that people suffer from low self-esteem and your limited information doesn't allow for any speculation. Just know that the way you feel is normal for some but it can be changed.
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    Mar 10, 2009, 03:30 PM

    Thanks for all the support you guys I will put everythinh into thought and consideration
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    Mar 10, 2009, 03:37 PM

    You need to value yourself.
    Look at who you want to be and what you want people to respect you for and become that person.
    The change is up to you.
    Remember that you are a valued human being who is worthy of respect and don't ever allow anyone to forget that,including yourself!
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    Nov 23, 2010, 05:12 PM
    I'm having the same problem and I'm only 16 years old... I think I'm doing it because I have a lot of issues with my father,I mean its not like I'm getting raped or anything but he is very mentally and emotionally abusive towards me and I just want to feel loved... so what do I do?
    I go out to college parties,get totally wasted and **** random guys that I just met
    I know I have a problem and I need to get help soon before I become known as a hoe... and so do u

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