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babytaiitaii95 · Mar 8, 2009, 03:55 PM

Heeey there this ad is for my friend she recently had sex with boyfriend but didn't mean for it 2 happen and forgetting the condom her boyfriend lied and said it was on with it being PITCH dark she couldn't tell if it was on or off but she told him to stop aftr like 15 minutes but he wouoldnt he held her down and kept going that's when she felt it! ' a load ' comn she freaked and told him to get off her but he wouldn't and he went for another 15 minutes holding her down when she finally managed to get him to stop she thinks it was too late she then came to my house freaked OUT aftr her telln me I didn't knoe what to say! She doesn't want to tell her mom or ANY ADULT only me, her, her boyfriend and my boyfriend know! But she said she felt it going in so she really thinks she is pregnant! Any one knoe what to do! She is panicing and thinking of runnign away from home cause of this! Her boyfriend thinks its funny when its not! Its really seriouse! Someone please help her! And if she tells her mom her mom will hurt her ( abuse ) This ALL happened last night at like 11 and she doesn't have any money to get a test done! Please help WE NEED ALL THE ADVICE WE CAN GET! :eek:

Fr_Chuck · Mar 8, 2009, 04:57 PM

This is still called rape, since he did not stop when she told him to. And how old is he ?

Next let me see running away, yea smart move, she will still be pregnant and sleeping with dozens of men to pay bills. And when she is finally found, she is still pregnant and no telling what else.

Next talk to the school nurse, not sure what your school offers or does not offer.

She needs to tell her parents, fast too since there is "morning after" pills that may be used if done soon enough

DoulaLC · Mar 8, 2009, 06:26 PM

Just to add to what Fr_Chuck said... I hope she dumps the boyfriend. She'd be very foolish if she stayed with someone who would treat her like that. Try and get her to see that she deserves so much more.

arnimal7 · Mar 8, 2009, 06:34 PM

She should tell her parents. If her Mother is going to hurt her over this, then Mom has issues too. Rape is rape and should be reported. Please convince her to do the right thing.