[ily043094]

On Friday, a guy in one of my classes asked me for my number so I gave it to him. We started talking and then he said that he liked me and I said I liked him back. So we started going out.

Then the Monday after the weekend he said he wasn't relly ready to be in a relationship with someone right now and that maybe we could try it agian. So I said okay. Then today we had class together and now he is talking to me and he was like "hey babe what's up" and how seeing my today made him wish that I was still his.

Does he want to get back together and how should I respond if he says he wants to get back together? Also in class we sit in tables and he sits in front of me, should I talk to him and what should I talk about?

By the way no one knows we went out?

[Bubbles95]

Okay... here is the problem. Hon... let me tell you everything I answer and give advice about... I have dealt with. Now, I have read something(similar) to this and what I'm going to say is (do not take this offensively) but he just wants you to think you NEED him. Are you still going out with him? If not... Don't go back. Honey... you can still be friends with him and that's probably a better idea. You can have him in your life but I think its just best to keep the relationship thing off until he realizes what a great girl you must be and you guys can have a long.. strong relationship okay? And since nobady knew abouyt it... don't tell anybody that you guys dated or it will get out and that is how rumors are started my friend. (if your comfortable with it) only tell your CLOSEST friends and your family... u can trust them.. oaky? Best wishes that you can see what I am trying to get through to you with:)

[liz28]

First off the two of you wa never in a relationship. The two of you just went on a date and if anything enjoyed each other company at the time. Your wasn't committed to one another so therefore the two of you owe each other nothing.

It shouldn't matter what he wants and it's not uncommon for someone not to tell their friends about their life and who they take out. Actions speak louder than words and I think you took a deeper liking for him than he has for you. However if you want to know what he thinks about you be direct with him and ask but whatever you do don't go around telling anyone that the two of you was in a relationship but the truth of the matter is that you wasn't.