[Bubbles95]

Okay, my current boyfriend christain... he is AMAZINGLY cute, funny, sweet, etc. anyway I think the whole piont in dating is to meet new people right? Okay. So when you are datin somebody, it's okay to like other people and date other people... I think. Well, I would never do it to him... but I told him he could do it if he wanted to you know he can date other people and still be with me because dating is to meet new people I just like him too much ot dump me for another girl. I think that's the only reason why I let him so he won't dump me but I don't know I don't think he would but the impossible has happened and his ex girlfriend he wouldn't date again but he really loved her and they still hug... affectionately. They kiss every now and again. She touches him... and since she ahtes me... she tries to make me jealous... but I tell her it doesn't bother me. If I made this desocion... then should it? I just don't know... I want him to stay with me and if that is the only way then I want it to be like that but I have had a lot of people telling me that that is just wrong I shouldn't let him and I should dump him but I like him TOO TOO TOO much so I ignore them and he likes me... but he doesn't know how to stick up for himself and just sits back and takes those kisses but I don't know what do I do? Change my rules? She is going to do it to him anyway and I don't want to start a fight... I'm kind of a pasifist. I just don't know... what do I do?

[liz28]

You need to be a little more honest about your feelings towards him because it seems like you want more from him but is willing to do anything that makes him happy. What about your happiness?

Him dating other people isn't going make him want want you more, it just gives him more options.

Also, him letting his kiss him and touch him especially if he knows his ex is only doing this to make you jealous is wrong because if anything iit's all about respect.

So maybe you sure borden your horizons and get out and meet people instead of just letting him do it because your concern about him getting hurt by you doing this but again what about you? Your starting wrong by putting him feelings before yours.

[giggle_monster]

Yea I think you should either tell him how you feel or dump his but. That is so wrong. And you are putting his feelings first when you are soposed to put yours first or something like that.