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    tinchu200 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 28, 2009, 07:08 AM
    Adult Sexuality
    How to check whether my fiancée is virgin or not
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    Feb 28, 2009, 09:10 AM

    No sure fired way. In fact Hyman repair surgury is popular in Islamic culture. Yes I got THAT tidbit of info from a couple Muslim women.
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    Feb 28, 2009, 09:11 AM

    That is interesting smoothy where there is a need there is a dollar to be made by someone.

    But you ask them, they tell you the truth and you believe them,
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    Feb 28, 2009, 01:51 PM
    Ask her if you must know... you are getting married... where is the trust factor? Does it matter if she is a virgin--if she loves you and has agreed to marry you...
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    Feb 28, 2009, 02:03 PM

    Even without hymen repair surgery, even without a hymen, doesn't mean she isn't a virgin. The hymen can be "broken" through other means other than sex.

    I understand that in some cultures virginity is very important, but if you love her, plan to make a life with her, what does it really matter?

    Ask her, then believe her.

    Good luck.
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    Mar 1, 2009, 08:25 AM

    Have you asked her? If so, do you think she is lying? you will NOT know...most womens hymen is broken before they ever have sex...this should not be anything to really worry about...
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    Mar 9, 2009, 12:11 PM

    Hard to tell. I mean, I had sex a few times before mine broke. Sometimes the hymen is barely there to begin with, sometimes it gets broken accidentally in childhood etc, sometimes it simply doesn't break. Mine lasted through some pretty vigorous sex in different positions.

    Ask, that's the main thing. Tightness isn't even a good indicator
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