[Summi]

Hi all,
I married the love of my life, with our parents consent, did see tat no one in my hubby's family liked me. Well, I am good luking, educated and sweet, hwever, my hubby's mom and siblings nvr approved of anything I did, whether be it me working or any household chores. THere has never been anything tat they ever apporved of.
After baring all the embarrasement and mental and physical torment, One fine day, I walked out of my mom in laws house, because my husbands younger brother argued and kud hv beaten me up in my hubby's absence, so I took my child and walked out never to go bk there, as he asked me to Get Lost. Today, he and his sister hv told everyone tat it was I who fought and gv out bad words to him, and he did nothing, I swear, if I hd done tat, then it would hv been he who had to walk out.
Well, any hw my hubby has realised tat his siblings don't like me so they hv done this with me so tat instead of them asking my husband and my to leave I only leave tat house. Hwever, nw my husband is asking me to forget everything and go meet them, but I know tat all they will do as usual is create a huge scene and do the same old humiliation and insult. Hw do I make my husband realise tat I do nt or never want to go to such people who use prostitute language and are a threat to my life?

[JudyKayTee]

Where are you? What Country? The options available to you are not the same all over.

[naomi_9r]

Dear Summi, my advise to you is, tell your hubby that you have married to him and not his family, secondly he is responsible for keeping you happy in every turn of life, after all you have left your family behind for him(hubby),you are earning means you are selfdependent... tell your hubby to buy new home and get separated from his family... stay happy always... be pracitical in your approch, always think before you take any steps...