[larabell]

I am with a man that I love very much. I know he loves me. But he drinks a lot and it brings out Verbal Abuse. What do I do? I don't want to leave him because I love him and I don't want to go through this anymore. He tells me that I am selfish and not giving. And a loser and parasite and a user.

I need help I don't have anyone to talk to. I can't talk to my parents they have enough going on.

[Fr_Chuck]

This is a cycle, I saw it almost daily as a police officer,
Except it ends up with physcial abuse often, you hear it and hear it, till you start to feel you are worthless and you actually deserve to be "punished"

So you LOVE to be down graded, you LOVE to feel worthless, you LOVE to be told you are a loser??

You are wanting someone to tell you it is OK, that he loves you and to put up with it

This is real easy of course he does not love you, if he did, he would not be doing this. The worst horror stories come when the words "WE WERE JUST OUT DRINKING" start the sentence.

So tell him that it is him that is a loser and it is him that is ein selfish, and you will not take it anymore. And then leae him. Find someone that deserves you, find someone that will respect you.