[Cwillett067]

Hey thank you to whoever reply to this post. So I am a 19 year old college kid. I need some help I have not really dated since my past relationship ended about 5 months ago. There have been girls who have been interested in me and I pretty much passed it up. Now there are two who I am interested in. The important one I am asking about well she is in one of my classes and one day I noticed her. So the next time we had class I sat next to her talked to her for a bit you no the usual. Next time I saw we talked for about 2-3 minutes and I asked if she wanted to hang out. Well I got her number as of yesterday and we texted for very a very little amount of time. Well she randomly stopped and I eventually just stopped texting. She has been giving me on and off signals like she is interested me she is not. What should I do so I don't look overbearing, but still enough to get somewhere with her?

[kctiger]

Ask her out, coffee, lunch, something informal and very casual... see where that goes. You will do fine. Most girls aren't going to just throw themselves at you, so you really have to just go for it, and see the results.

[talaniman]

Stop texting, and ask her out. That's the way its done guy!

[artlady]

You are a little gun shy and that's O.K. it will help you to protect yourself but you won't get anywhere if you don't make a move.

What's the worst thing she can say... No?

Take the plunge,have confidence and don't over think things.

Maybe she stopped texting because she was busy,maybe her battery died,any number of reasons so don't jump to conclusions.