[MsMewiththat]

My brother passed away in 2005 I miss him so much this time of the year. My birthday is this month and he died on my birthday. I miss him so much today that I can barely breath. I sometimes feel like I am never going to be the same, I know that I won't be, I can't call him, I can never hear his voice out loud and never will I ever be able to see his fingers. Sounds crazy but he had the coolest hands. Hands that had been all over the world and did so many cool things. He had great eyes too. So today as I search for some kind of peace I wonder? What does it mean that he died on my birthday? Does it mean anything at all are we some how connected? Does anyone have any ideas..

Sincere responses only please.

[StaticFX]

No, it means nothing. I lost both my parents (within 9 months of each other)
My dad died on the date that was my sons birth time. He died 10/11 and my son was born 10:11

Coincidence. That's all.
I know the feeling.. I was 30 when I lost them.. its suck so bad when I need advice or help and can't turn to my mom. It gets a little better in time.

If you are having real trouble.. go to a therapist.. it HELPS!
Also, try this... write a letter to him.. tell him all the stuff that's going on.. it helps as well.

Good luck! Chin up.. it gets better