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    KORI_09 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 9, 2009, 10:36 AM
    I'm 18 and he is 25. Too old?

    I need some advice.. I am a senior in high school about to graduate in a few moths.. I have been dating this guy from work for about 3 months.. the thing is I'm 18 and he is 25.. in your honest opition do you think he is too old for me? I have talked to friends about it and some think he is but others think he isn't.. and I want to believe that age doesn't matter but I know in some cases it does.. but what about my situation? I really am falling for him he is so sweet and I love his personality.. but should I let him go because of the age? Please help I need some honest advice! :confused:
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    Feb 9, 2009, 10:38 AM

    I think if you are asking this question you aren't mature enough for any relationship, let alone a relationship with a 25 year old.

    If he is sweet and you get along well, love his personality, why would you even consider "letting him go because of his age"?
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    Feb 9, 2009, 10:46 AM

    Take it easy. Your 18. You're not marrying this guy.

    He seems like a nice guy I wouldn't let him go just because of age.
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    Feb 9, 2009, 10:49 AM

    In my opinion this is borderline. But I wouldn't drop the relationship just yet. Three months is a relatively short time. So I think I woud just continue to take it slowly.
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    Feb 9, 2009, 10:51 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by KORI_09 View Post
    i need some advice .. i am a senior in high school about to graduate in a few moths .. i have been dating this guy from work for about 3 months,he is a manager were i work, our relationship is under the table because he will get in trouble, but he says he is going to transfer so we can be together but nothing has happened so far and plus my mom has no idea and im afaid she wont approve because im 18 and he is 25.. in your honest opition do you think he is too old for me?? i have talked to friends about it and some think he is but others think he isnt.. and i want to believe that age doesnt matter but i know in some cases it does.. but what about my situation?? i really am falling for him he is so sweet and i love his personality.. but should i let him go because of the age and because of the whole work situation?? please help i need some honest advice!! :confused:
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    Feb 9, 2009, 10:53 AM

    Everyone has offered their opinion. In my view, I will say this is VERY borderline. I am not sure what a 25 year old and an 18 year old would have in common. Just my opinion.

    If you are happy, then just take it easy, relax, and see how this develops. Don't overanalyze anything.
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    Feb 9, 2009, 03:36 PM

    No I don't think he's too old. Just be smart and careful about him. Older men sometimes prey on high school girls for sex.
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