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Seronum · Feb 9, 2009, 08:19 AM

Hi my Names Chris, I met this girl about a month ago in the trailer park and ever since we've been hanging out and its gotten to the point where she means everything to me and she told me she feels the same and that she has fallen for me. The part that confuses me is the fact it seems like she hasn't gotten over her ex fiancé who broke up with her because he thought she was was too immature. I really love this girl and I don't want to get hurt. She doesn't know what she wants I don't think and the other night I went to her place to get my phone charger and they were on the couch together laying down. I was very hurt by the sight of this. Her and her ex are supposed to be best friends too but it doesn't seem he's such a good friend because every time she talks to me or goes to my place he gets jealous yet he can go talk to any girl he wants and she doesn't have a problem with it. Im not sure what to do because I feel like I'm waiting on a relationship that might not turn itno a relationship at all. My heart says to keep going but I'm still confused. Does anyone have advice for this type of thing?:(

kctiger · Feb 9, 2009, 08:21 AM

Me... I get out of this... NOW. Too much drama.

Carry on... :cool:

Romefalls19 · Feb 9, 2009, 08:23 AM

Get out now, if she does decide to leave her fiancé, you will just be a rebound. Safe yourself the trouble and the hurt, leave

Irishgirl · Feb 9, 2009, 08:27 AM

Agree with romefalls19 walk away now before you get even more involved. Nothing good can come of this!

ardahk · Feb 9, 2009, 08:38 AM

Sorry to say but the others have got it right. It is an unfortunate set of circumstances. She may love you, but if she isn't over her ex and is still chilling with him - your place in this trio is only going to be to help her get over her ex.

I know this may seem blunt but how can she tell you that, then so easily stay chilling with him etc. Even if she does leave him and come to you, your relationship is almost doomed from the get go.

She isn't over her ex, she can't decide, she tells you she loves you but her actions say different... Maybe she is actually immature - make her realise what she is mssing and literally go missing from her life.

Get away, get away otherwise I see a triangle of love coming our way - and much more pain for you

neverme · Feb 9, 2009, 09:11 AM

I have to say I agree with everyone else.

I know if it was me and my fiancé left me I wouldn't be able to be around them, the fact that they are laying together all cosy on the couch, come on!

It's not going to be easy but you need to back away. You're the only one that's really going to be hurt from all of this. They are not done yet.

talaniman · Feb 9, 2009, 08:12 PM

1st red flag- your so in love after a month, and what's worse she agrees. Beware dude, she is a stranger, and is telling you what YOU want to hear to have you stick around.

2nd red flag- She is still seeing her ex.

That would be enough for me to disappear from her life, but your a bit blind at this time to see she is using you to make the ex jealous.

Sorry guy, she ain't worth it, nor is she honest with you. She isn't even your friend.