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    krazy92 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 28, 2009, 12:07 AM
    16 year old girl wants to be adopt
    Hii im 16 year old who wants to be adopted and is looking for a family that would take care a girl like me. My reasons are parents argue a lot,abuse,no support,depressed,issues with school. This all started when my family started to fall apart. Since i was a kid my parents often fights and argue in front of me and my brother (Until now) i kinda not think bout how disturbing it is to me. But as years passes by, things got more worse and and things just corrupted. One day I've seen my dad's phone and seen this text that broke my heart. It was a text from his co-worker (lady) telling him "things" like how she loves her and how he loves her and so on. He cheated on my mom. After seeing that text,family friends started seeing my dad with this woman who he is dating. So i told my aunt bout it cause my mom isn't here with us. She was still in the Philippines at that time period. Then a few months later, after my mom found out, she also started seeing other guy and woman. How did i know? My family in the Philippines told me. I was shocked and hurt. Its not just my dad who is doing this, Its also my mom. They don't know how much this hurts me. How much it affected my school work and my life alone. I was so very disappointed at them. My own parents who should be a role model for me and my siblings, just betrayed us. Showing us a wrong model. Things aren't right. I couldn't take this anymore.. I was going to kill myself. I wanted to leave that house. I wanted to be adopted. I want help.... Help that i can get away form them.....
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    Jan 28, 2009, 12:12 AM
    Boyfreind adopt
    can my boyfriend adopt me and still be together?
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    Jan 28, 2009, 12:14 AM
    Finding foster parents
    im 16,i wanted to be in a new family. How can i do that?
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    Jan 28, 2009, 12:19 AM
    Suicide/run away/adopt
    Im having issues with my life,i wanted to leave home,but of course i cant. My boyfriend and his family is willing to take care of me and stay with me. I wanted to leave home so bad, but i dnt know what to do. What am i suppose to do?:confused::confused:
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    Jan 28, 2009, 12:27 AM
    Boyfriend jealousy
    My boyfriend is having problems with his jealousy in me. I mean when my GUY FRIENDS hugs me or like touch me (friend way) he gets mad and jealous. I tried to tell him that its just friends but he has this jealousy stuck in him. How can I help him not to or make him comfortable about this?:confused::eek::confused:
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    Jan 28, 2009, 12:28 AM
    Hi, krazy92!

    What sort of things are happening in your life that are causing you to be upset, please?

    It's not a good idea to keep starting new threads here that are basically about the same thing.

    Someone will eventually come along to help you. A person just has to be patient when using this site.

    Thanks!
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    Jan 28, 2009, 07:44 AM

    Where are you living now?
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    Jan 28, 2009, 07:54 AM

    I am so sorry that you have to live with this terrible situation. I was a foster parent and I am totally going to do it again. I feel that there are many kids that could use a lot of help and direction. You are not alone, there are a lot of people that care. Look for social services, etc. I will keep you all in my prayers.
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    Jan 28, 2009, 11:25 AM

    A good place to start might be with your school counselor. They should be able to help you find the resources you need and help you find other options.
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    Jan 29, 2009, 09:11 PM

    Lose the boyfriend, you really don't need his crap to add to yours. Do you have any other family around you?
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    Jan 30, 2009, 11:02 AM

    I agree with Talaniman. You are the most important person. Look out for yourself. You are #1.

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