[lost12confused]

Me and my friend had sex. Its not something I'm proud of one bit. I told him no many times and he didn't listen. Although that we did use protection and I've learned to deal with it. Not much point in being sad over that. Except the fact ill never get my virginity back. Anywayz here is my question. Im not sure if I'm pregnant or not. I am late on my period and I'm never late. Im always early but I'm trying not to let that stress me out. I haven't taken a test in a while and I know I should soon. Which I plan on going to a clinic sometime this week. But it doesn't feel like my period is coming at all... Not even close.. The few people I have told about this stupid horrible incident all believe I am. But I play rugby. And I have practices every Monday Wednesday Friday. And I'm kind of wanting to know that if I was pregnant when should I start being careful about it ?

[jessebearz]

First off- if you didn't want it and he made you do it then that is rape! How old are you and this "friend"? You need to go to the doc ASAP!

[Fr_Chuck]

If you keep saying no and he forced it, it is rape.

Could you be, yes of course I wll assume you used a condom, at best they have a 3 percent fail rate and most web sites state as used they fail about 10 percent of the tme. Still better than nothing.

So you go to the clinic and get checked. It well could be the stress of this happening and the worry about it.

[eskimopups]

Even if you have your period, you need to see someone and talk about your experience. It doesn't sound like a good first experience, nor does it sound like something you wanted. You could see your Dr. or NP, Planned Parenthood, Rape Clinic... talk to someone. There is more to be concerned about than pregnancy, your health and STD's should be taken into consideration also.